The Dignity of Remaining Unfinished
We live in a world that is obsessed with the "After" photo. We love transformation stories. We love the narrative of the person who burned out, quit their job, moved to an island, and found total bliss. But that isn't the reality for most of us. Most of us are still in the "During." We are still showing up. We are still meeting the targets. We are still wearing the professional mask. But internally, something has shifted. The Quiet Realization If you’ve ever sat in a meeting and realized that you’ve stopped fighting for your ideas not because you’re lazy, but because you no longer have the heart to defend them you’ve experienced what I call Quitting in Your Head. It is a silent withdrawal. It is the moment you realize that your competence has become your camouflage. Because you are reliable, no one notices that you are drifting. Why I Won't Give You a Solution When I started writing the reflections that became my book, I Quit In My Head , I felt a pressure t...